How to Conquer the Cliques in Your Office
by Christina Lee

 

We spend more time with our co-workers than our family. So, it is natural that strong friendships will occur. While this can bring teams together, it can also tear them apart. Here are some advice on how to handle the office clique, whether you are part of one or not.

The Oxford English Dictionary defines a clique as “a small group of people who spend time together and do not readily allow others to join them.”

A clique by its very definition excludes people and there are never any benefits in excluding your fellow employees. Remember at school when your teacher separated you from your friends for giggling and telling secrets in class? Well, the workplace is not that different to the classroom. No matter how old you are, it will always be human nature to want to be part of the "in" crowd. But just like in school, it is often wiser to be a little less obvious. And it is important to be aware of how your actions may exclude others.

If you are part of a clique, take a moment to consider the consequences this could have on your future career prospects. DBM’s worldwide research has consistently found networking to be the most effective career-transition strategy. People with good personal and professional networks in place find the process of job hunting less daunting than those who don’t have a solid contact base. In today's workforce, where turnover is often high and people have as many as six to eight jobs in a lifetime, storming through your career and in the process, creating enemies and generating hostility is not a wise thing to do. Although you may believe you are forming strong relationships and creating future opportunities by being part of a clique, you should never confuse this with genuine networking.

In a workplace with high staff turnover, a member of a clique can easily find himself in a lonely situation, feeling left out once fellow clique members have moved on. Limiting your interaction in the workplace to a few select people at the expense of others can be extremely destructive to your professional image and have a career-limiting effect.

In a workplace with high staff turnover, a member of a clique can easily find himself in a lonely situation, feeling left out once fellow clique members have moved on. Limiting your interaction in the workplace to a few select people at the expense of others can be extremely destructive to your professional image and have a career-limiting effect.

So how can you as an employee help to create an office culture that is free from cliques? The following 10 practical tips can help you discourage cliques in your office, no matter where you are in the pecking order.

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Organise regular social events with your workmates and be sure to invite everyone in your team. Even a quick drink after work every now and then can make a difference.
   
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When you go to lunch, ask the people around you if they would like to join you. Avoid making a habit of taking lunch breaks with exactly the same set of people every day and leaving others behind.
   
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Take time to get to know some of your lesser-known colleagues a little better. Build respect for people as individuals and not because of the group to which they belong.
   
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Be as inclusive of new employees as you can. Put yourself in their place and consider how daunting it would be to arrive in an environment that is dominated by an impenetrable clique of existing employees.